Kinda Sorta Famous

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recess: the quiet game

Oh now RiRi wants to play the quiet game?

I think this was the game the teachers wanted to play when they were tired of hearing us scream and yell all day. It would be the end of the day and they’d stand up, hold up their hands, and say, “Okay everyone! Sit at your desk, we are going to play the quiet game!”

The class groans.

And as always, Mr. Look at me! I need attention!, gets out first. You know, the guy that forgets to take his Prozac every morning. He loves attention, and usually gets it one way or another.

Then, there’s the shy guy. Mr. Shy Guy is usually sweet, cute, and of course, smart. Mr. Shy Guy usually grows up to be sweet, cute, and of course, successful. But nonetheless…still shy.

Ladies, you must admit, shy guy intrigues you. At least a little. So you play coy, maybe flirt a little, maybe you even add each other as facebook pals, since you have 18 mutual friends. Yet still, you want Mr Shy to make the first move.

Guys, we still want you to make the first move.

So, Mr. Shy Guy,  we know you’re out there. Making shy the new sexy. (We also know some of you aren’t really shy, but just playing the role. Yea… we’re on to you.)
But rather you’re truly shy or just role playing — here are some ideas to score you points, score you dates, and help you overcome your shyness, while remaining in your comfort zone.

Asking someone out is tough! And I’m not talking about going to see a movie. I’m talking about a date in which you actually have to talk and get to know each other. (Leave the movies for the high school kids and the middle aged married couples. You’re way more interesting than them!) Besides, millennium dating is the dating playground for Mr. Shy Guy. This is your destiny! Why?

  1. Internet Dating and Matchmaking Sites. Seriously, if 20,000 people a day are singing up on match.com, what are you waiting for? Getting the small talk out of the way is such a bonus. That way when you do decide to meet, it’s like meeting an old friend. Plus, the chemistry between the two of you will probably be so intense, dinner could easily turn into a night cap and maybe breakfast. 🙂
  2. YouTube. Broadcast Yourself. I mean really, 35 million people saw Tay Zonday perform “Chocolate Rain” over the world wide web. Amazing. Yet, you don’t need 35 million views. Just one. Upload a video of yourself asking her out. Be charming, be creative, be cute. (Most importantly, be detailed, ie. time, day, place…) Send the link to her email, twitter, or facebook. That way, if you’re rejected at least its not in person. But honestly, who would reject a guy that seemingly went through ll the trouble? BONUS: If you’re generic and use pet names — you can copy and paste the link to a few other ladies as well. 😉
  3. Shy does not equal lack of confidence. Confidence is sexy. It’s arousing. It’s magnetic. So be sure not to let the shyness come off as self uncertainty. You may be shy, but you are self assured, good looking, and successful. So play it cool and confident. BONUS: When the time comes for sleepover with lingerie, candles and R. Kelly — turn off the shy channel and turn on the animal planet. It will make you interesting and turn her on!

So happy dating, Mr. Shy Guy! You’ll crawl out of that shell for some lucky lady. No more playing the quiet game. Oh and remember… shy guy doesn’t kiss on the first date — but he always uses tongue on the first kiss. 🙂

Emme

August 24, 2009 Posted by | recess, the dating game | , , , , , , , , | Leave a comment