Kinda Sorta Famous

in pursuit of life, love, and the opportunity to be…

finding forever

It’s been pretty tough on the dating front as of late.  I have met some interesting ladies but none that have caught my full attention.  At some point, I think we all begin to ask. . . is it me?  I aint goin down that road though.  I know have my own idiosyncrasies and imperfections, but at the same time I know what I can’t deal with.  In my mind it is just as important to know what you don’t want as it is to know what you do.  I say that because I don’t want to walk around with this “list” of ideals.  I don’t want to force every woman I meet to live up to some mythical set of expectations.  There are actually only very few “must haves”.  I just want to find someone who is God-fearing, grown, sexy and intelligent.  More importantly, I can’t deal with immature, insecure, overly-dependant (“pay my bills”), too independent (“I don’t NEED a man”) and selfish women. 


I think we all have to come to terms with that fact that we are all superficial somewhat.  THERE. . . I said it.  I want a beautiful, sexy sista.  Call me crazy cuz I want my woman to look good.  Yeah, it is kinda shallow to say. However, I firmly believe that we are all somewhat superficial.  I mean really, who sees a person across the room and goes . . . “Damn, she looks so intelligent.  I bet she really has a sunny disposition.  I should get to know her.”  A person’s outward appearance is the first thing you notice whether you want to admit it or not.  Unfortunately, it is the ONLY thing you can judge from across the room.  People are visual folks.  Don’t get it twisted though.  She better have some conversation and personality to go with it when I get over there, else I might lose interest as fast as I gained it.


Lately, I have met women with bright careers but no room for a man, ladies who are beautiful with little or no substance and cute intelligent girls that need to grow up.  They say a good man is hard to find. . . what about the probability of finding a good woman.  I know several brothers having a hard time finding a “good woman”.  I know brothers who married the wrong girl for various reasons.  I even know brothers who were married and divorced over some BS before they were 30.  So what about that ladies. . . where yall at?  Where are all the good women?


October 7, 2007 - Posted by | the dating game

1 Comment »

  1. You ain’t lying Spinks…

    Comment by Jasper | February 18, 2008 | Reply

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