Kinda Sorta Famous

in pursuit of life, love, and the opportunity to be…

finding forever

It’s been pretty tough on the dating front as of late.  I have met some interesting ladies but none that have caught my full attention.  At some point, I think we all begin to ask. . . is it me?  I aint goin down that road though.  I know have my own idiosyncrasies and imperfections, but at the same time I know what I can’t deal with.  In my mind it is just as important to know what you don’t want as it is to know what you do.  I say that because I don’t want to walk around with this “list” of ideals.  I don’t want to force every woman I meet to live up to some mythical set of expectations.  There are actually only very few “must haves”.  I just want to find someone who is God-fearing, grown, sexy and intelligent.  More importantly, I can’t deal with immature, insecure, overly-dependant (“pay my bills”), too independent (“I don’t NEED a man”) and selfish women. 

 

I think we all have to come to terms with that fact that we are all superficial somewhat.  THERE. . . I said it.  I want a beautiful, sexy sista.  Call me crazy cuz I want my woman to look good.  Yeah, it is kinda shallow to say. However, I firmly believe that we are all somewhat superficial.  I mean really, who sees a person across the room and goes . . . “Damn, she looks so intelligent.  I bet she really has a sunny disposition.  I should get to know her.”  A person’s outward appearance is the first thing you notice whether you want to admit it or not.  Unfortunately, it is the ONLY thing you can judge from across the room.  People are visual folks.  Don’t get it twisted though.  She better have some conversation and personality to go with it when I get over there, else I might lose interest as fast as I gained it.

 

Lately, I have met women with bright careers but no room for a man, ladies who are beautiful with little or no substance and cute intelligent girls that need to grow up.  They say a good man is hard to find. . . what about the probability of finding a good woman.  I know several brothers having a hard time finding a “good woman”.  I know brothers who married the wrong girl for various reasons.  I even know brothers who were married and divorced over some BS before they were 30.  So what about that ladies. . . where yall at?  Where are all the good women?

October 7, 2007 Posted by | the dating game | 1 Comment

imma buy you a draaaannnnnnnk! part deux

Okay… so let me giive ya’ll an update…

I ended up getting a date out of the deal. Complete with Dinner, Drinks and Dancing! And it wasn’t Dutch! 😆 So I look at my 11.25 as an investment!

PLUS…. After the 3 D’s I taught him how to play at the craps table.

AND… my luck was still in effect cause I walked away with a cool $300. YES! That’s like a 3000% return on my investment! 😆 Now I can get my windows tinted, pay my electric bill, and get a couch! 😆

Sooooo…….. if I never would have bought his drink, I never would have got the digits, and we never would have went out, and I never would have won $300!

So let this be a lesson to all (Niya and Seneca 😆 ) buy that man a drink!

If only he actually LIVED here. *sigh*

October 1, 2007 Posted by | the dating game | Leave a comment